

| Ramifications Of Educator Sexual Misconduct |
| Inappropriate Behaviors |
| Ramifications |
| Extending beyond your job into areas for which you have no training |
| You run the risk of taking on the role of counselor or advocate for which you may have no formal training and that places the child at the disadvantage of building a false sense of support. |
| Sharing personal and confidential information that you would normally share only with a counselor or significant other |
| The [young person] may assume the role of peer and remove or disregard the appropriate age-defined barrier |
| You are at risk of vicarious traumatization (burnout, counter-transference) ; an empathetic link may form that will compromise your decision-making ability. |
| Spending time alone with an individual youth in activities that are beyond the scope of your responsibilities |
| Of grooming; a young person will build dependence, a sense of being an “equal,” and a loss of perspective regarding the barriers. |
| Grooming behaviors: building trust, bestowing favors, alienating others, demanding service, violating boundaries |
| In later years, s/he will be unable to hold jobs, will isolate, and may self-impose restrictions on the number of friends or significant others. |
| Invading the personal space; being alone, sitting/standing too close, touching of any sort. |
| Victims may suffer anorexia/bulimia, or weight gain by using food as a comfort or weight loss through denial of eating |
| Allowing (your) personal duties to be performed inappropriately—recording grades, filing reports or personal folders, etc. |
| Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD); fear, guilt, humiliation, depression, insomnia, memory dysfunction, anger, mental health costs |
| Communications that have implied messages and “secret” understandings |
| Suicide ideation and/or hard drug abuse are additional long term symptoms of adult abusive behavior. |
| An inappropriate atmosphere of boundaries re: gender and harassment issues: sexual banter, innuendoes, dirty/suggestive jokes, inappropriate language, sexually suggestive behavior or clothing. |
| Victims may experience fear, guilt, shame, depression, poor self-esteem and self-image, inappropriate sexual behavior, and poor social interactions. |
| Relationships maintained outside normal events; rides home (alone), taking students to lunch, gifts, personal notes and letters. |
| The offender: loss of job, family, prosecution, incarceration. |
| The items in these two columns are not directly related. Any of the Inappropriate Behaviors may lead to any or all of the Ramifications...and these lists are not exhaustive. |